*WHY IS MENTAL ILLNESS PROMOTED AS SUCH AN IMPORTANT PART OF THE SCHOOL SHOOTER MASSACRE MURDERERS MOTIVATION AND ENERGIZATION AND MENTAL ILLNESS IS IGNORED IN THE CASE OF FAKE 911 CALLERS AND RESPONDERS?
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Couldn’t have said it better. After a longstanding marriage, and children, the man I married turned from Jekyll into Hyde one day, and started making frivolous police calls to “come control the wife.” This, when I spoke up with an opinion that did not agree with his, for one of the first times in years. He convinced the none-too-astute officers that he would like me to have a psychiatric exam, because he was sure I was “bonkers” for having disagreed with him. One truly nasty cop obliged by coming back with the paperwork for him to have me held for 72 hrs., against my say-so. Apparently such archaic laws are still on the books in some places. When I met with a doctor, he told me my husband was obviously a dangerous man, and not to go home again, but to RUN! He released me immediately, told me to divorce him asap. I had underage children at home still, so I needed to go back. My Narcissistic husband became worse — enormous lies, smearing my reputation to everyone we knew (and I was shocked that some “friends” never questioned what he told them), destroying our finances, damaging or stealing my belongings, and becoming abusive in every way you might imagine. He continued trying to claim that I was the crazy one, as I did everything to sort through this mess. He cooked up another smear, took it to court this time, and had me thrown out of our home on false allegations. I had it overturned, but that took months and thousands of dollars. Then, I found he had been brainwashing our children to hate me. He had taken them away forcefully many times, for days at a stretch, to anonymous motels where I could not reach them. Police did nothing; said Dad had joint custody. This is where my husband indoctrinated our kids with subtle mind-control methods. Eventually, he had the kids thinking his way – like a cult leader with his groupies. I found out it is called Attachment-based Parental Alienation (see website of Craig Childress). My once-loving children became as vicious and abusive to me as my husband. I am still in shock. Waiting for the divorce. My kids refuse contact, and treat me like a worm whenever we do see one another. How did this happen? I am normal. I thought for years that my husband was too — apart from the fact that he could never thank or compliment me in any way whatsoever (no reciprocity). Wish now that I had known that was a clue. Take your children and get out of there! Just be careful that you do not jump from the frying pan into the fire by having him try Parental Alienation on them — which causes huge damage. It can land you in court for years of often-fruitless fighting for your kids. Emotionally, Parental Alienation leaves your kids at high risk of suicide. This is serious stuff.
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